Success means different things to people. For some success is measure in terms of how much you get paid in your job. Success in context of monetary and financial achievement is usually the norm.
For others, success is a matter of the state of the mind. Take for instance, those who are spiritually enlighten. Success is a matter of attaining peace and tranquility with oneself.
Well for others in particular men, success means making more money than your wife can spend….sighzzz…
success should b gauged by yourself, either you get desponded or complacent if allow others to gauged you